Tuesday, January 4, 2011

What Qualities Would You Look for in a Future Life Partner?



You know as well as I do that looking for a future life partner is a different ball game from ordinary dating. In dating, nothing is serious. You can come across a guy or a gal right now, and in a couple of days dump him or her just for the flimsy reason of the way he or she chews his or her meat pie. In the first place, you may have agreed to date each other because you admire her long neck, angelic face, sexiness, etc while she, on the other hand, consented to going out with you because of just your good looks, height, outspokenness, etc. You can see, there is no commitment!



But when it comes to the issue of seeking future life partners, brethren, you need to be very careful and at the same time, commit it into God’s hands in prayers. The wisdom of man may not be sufficient in this matter. It is the wisdom of God that will help you discover who that your life partner really is. People pretend a lot these days but God is going to reveal him or her to you and you’ll get to know if he or she is:

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Women: 7 Embarrassing Things That Cost Them Their Marriage for Life



From the physical point of view, there were and there still are, lots of women who are allowing their life partners slip off their hands. By their actions, the message is simply: I have decided never to get married.
Because I feel concerned, I want to highlight the top 7 embarrassing things that women do consciously or unconsciously that suggest they don’t want to marry.
Scary Face. A man may be attracted to a woman, and the next thing for him to do is to approach her. But the message he interprets from the expression on her face determines, to a large extent, whether or not he would go ahead to chat her up. You see, some women are always looking so serious. They find it very difficult to smile, and that alone is enough to scare men away because nobody enjoys rejection.
Fantasies. A lot of women don’t get married because of unrealistic expectations from would-be life partners. They even measure their relationships by what they read from romantic novels and what they watch on similar movies. This kind of fantasies can never be equated with real life experiences in marriage relationships. But most of them get deceived and continue quitting relationships that would have resulted in marriages.



Mr. Perfect. Another factor which hindered women who never married is continuous look-out for Mr. Perfect. They are so scared of making mistakes in their choice of life partners. They are so afraid of the challenges inherent in marriages. They continue to ask: what if that man turns out to be a wrong partner? But the truth is: there is no Mr. Perfect and there is no Miss Perfect. She that is looking for Mr. Perfect is not perfect. So, if you want to marry, change.